Some tips for being more successful on OKCupid (tl;dr)

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Some tips for being more successful on OKCupid (tl;dr)

I have had some solid success on OKC and thought I'd share with the vesti some tips for having success on there. I used to be relativley successful with girls, but don't have a life anymore because I work two jobs, one of them requires me to get up 5 days a week at 3:50 AM. After quite a long dry spell, I turned to OKC to get my dick wet again. I resisted this notion for a long time because the thought of online dating kinda went against my ego, but eventually caved to the need for sex. About 9 months ago I made a profile, met a girl, banged her on the third meet up, and consistently banged her for about 6-7 months. Things ended kinda hazey, but since then I've banged 4 more girls from the site. Mindset 1 - Girls on online dating websites are probably not girlfriend material. They are looking for a hookup. They won't directly say it and neither should you, but always assume that the underlying context between a conversation is that a girl is looking for a hookup or a short term relationship. If something happens beyond that, awesome, good for you, congrats... Don't take rejection personally. If you don't get a response... I'd say that getting a 25% response rate on your initial messages is doing a solid job. Because it is a numbers game, remember to send out messages to lots of girls. Don't get caught up on one. Just because you're having a decent convo with one doesn't mean that you should stop messaging other girls. Don't try to talk her into having sex with you. Don't try to get to know her entire life story. This isn't a time to share vulnerabilities and know each others deepest, darkest secrets. Build enough attraction and chemistry to build curiosity... Read their profiles before you message them. Look for girls that you find physically attractive, but don't message somebody if you can tell that you won't like their personality. There are thousands of girls on this site... I promise you that by doing this, you will have more success. Your Profile Post pictures of you doing fun things. Don't worry about how good looking you are. Post pics that show off an adventurous side of you. Hanging with friends, partying, hiking, a picture of you in another country or visiting something cool, etc. Make sure that a full body shot is in there. As for your profile, don't try too hard on it. Don't write essay after essay describing your entire existence. It's better to show that you don't take the site too seriously. Here's an example of some of my profile answers: My Self Summary: Hi, I'm Nick. I like standup comedy, mma, and long walks on the beach What I'm Doing with my Life Catching bad guys, saving children from burning buildings, flying around the world at lightning speeds... The first things people usually notice about me I have a disfigurement on my face that I was born with. I cannot go out in public without being stared at. Just kidding I'm normal. See how there's kind of a theme of nothing being too serious? I mix in a couple short, serious responses as well so that they have a slight idea about what you're about, but once again making it seem like I'm not pouring in effort. Example: On a typical Friday night I am: Doing whatever I want. I don't party a whole lot anymore. When I go out, I go hard, but I'm usually too busy and have too much shit to do Saturday morning and afternoon to go party every weekend. I try to always do something adventurous or new when I get the chance, but that's usually early afternoons and early evenings. Show the girls viewing your profile that you have standards and that you have a type and know what it is. Girls who are moderately attractive have a LOT of messages. Don't be one of those guys. Your goal, like I said, is not to create attraction, but to stand out. Send her ANYTHING that she hasn't seen before. Delta this is Bravo. Sorry, it's just not working out. We have grown emotionally distant over time. Use one of those if you like, but you should seek to come up with your own. Mass message the same message to lots of girls at a time. Send about 5-10 messages of the same thing at the same time. With a decent profile, you'll get about a 25-40% response rate, depending on luck. Conversation Keep it short, light hearted, and don't be super serious. Your goal is to be fun for 10-20 messages, and then get her number so that you can continue the conversation over text message. Here's an example of a conversation I had with a girl that I laid recently: ITT: I'm breaking up with you. Things just aren't working out. I'm keeping the house, the care, and the TV. You can keep the kids. Girl: Fine you're fat anyway and I had sex with all of your uncles while you were at work on your birthday. Well I cheated on you in our bed... Girl: Didn't I give those to your mom for Christmas? ITT: Yup, and I was with your best friend while you were doing it. It's for the best that it didn't work out. It was all fights and makeup sex anyway. Girl: My best friend is a 6 foot 3 hairy Polish guy. ITT: My Uncle used to be my Aunt... Girl: We both win? ITT: Sounds like it. You get 2 cool points for playing along with that. You're here because you enjoy free meals her username is LoveFreeMeals. I'm here because I enjoy witty banter. I like free meals too though. In fact, free meals are my favorite kind of meals. NOTE - I waited until this far into the conversation to start commenting on her profile. The fre meals thing was my first time commenting on it. Girl: I deserve at least 5 cool points. ITT: Cool points don't just get handed out for nothing. In fact, if anybody ever makes it to 20, the get a bonus prize. Girl: What's the prize? I'm neutral about surprises. ITT: My surprises are the best. Do you speak text? Girl: I do, especially when inebriated. Gives phone number --- From there, I texted her, met her at a local bar that night, and it was all magic from there. Looks will definitely make a difference. I do believe I'm a relatively good looking guy. But I also believe that it's more about attitude, and if you show girls that you have an attractive attitude your looks don't matter nearly as much. I never have and never will post pics on the vesti. This is still good info and you're welcome to take it or leave it. I mean, not really. I work over 60 hours a week, and my sleep schedule is extremely anti-social right now. I see lots of people who are obviously clueless on OKCupid, and I wanted to share some of the things I've used for personal success. I mean, not really. I work over 60 hours a week, and my sleep schedule is extremely anti-social right now. I see lots of people who are obviously clueless on OKCupid, and I wanted to share some of the things I've used for personal success. Thats not what I was assuming. Im assuming that by posting this, youre something of a narcissist asshole. Not every person wants the girls you are after. All women cant be obtained by this method. You say yourself that 25% reply rate is a good response. You think those other 75% of women dont respond to anyone because they arent responding to you? You are an unoriginal uncondimented bland ham fucking sandwich. I want the women who arent replying to you. So Ill type whatever the fuck I think will get them. Its going to be different than what you have to say, and it will work. You arent as important as you think you are, and this makes ME the pessimist dbag. Thats not what I was assuming. Im assuming that by posting this, youre something of a narcissist asshole. Not every person wants the girls you are after. All women cant be obtained by this method. You say yourself that 25% reply rate is a good response. You think those other 75% of women dont respond to anyone because they arent responding to you? You are an unoriginal uncondimented bland ham fucking sandwich. I want the women who arent replying to you. So Ill type whatever the fuck I think will get them. Its going to be different than what you have to say, and it will work. You arent as important as you think you are, and this makes ME the pessimist dbag. I've sexed 4 different attractive girls in a few months with, as mentioned, little to no effort. And I am offereing people who would like to do the same some advice on how to do it. I'm not saying I'm the best. I'm not telling anybody that my method of doing things is superior to any other way. I am simply offereing some perspective and advice. And you definitely ARE being a dbag. I've sexed 4 different attractive girls in a few months with, as mentioned, little to no effort. And I am offereing people who would like to do the same some advice on how to do it. I'm not saying I'm the best. I'm not telling anybody that my method of doing things is superior to any other way. I am simply offereing some perspective and advice. And you definitely ARE being a dbag. Whatever the fuck that means. You are just here to brag about getting laid, in the least original terms ever. No wonder you catch a lot of vapid, worthless, random fuck girls. They like vapid, worthless, random fuck boys. I've sexed 4 different attractive girls in a few months with, as mentioned, little to no effort. And I am offereing people who would like to do the same some advice on how to do it. I'm not saying I'm the best. I'm not telling anybody that my method of doing things is superior to any other way. I am simply offereing some perspective and advice. And you definitely ARE being a dbag. Whatever the fuck that means. You are just here to brag about getting laid, in the least original terms ever. No wonder you catch a lot of vapid, worthless, random fuck girls. They like vapid, worthless, random fuck boys. I've never been on a dating site but I think this might be some good advice!!! The only thing I don't agree with is the girls on dating sites aren't girlfriend material. My aunti met her husband on a dating site and they have beautiful kids and one of the best relationships I've ever seen. I've never been on a dating site but I think this might be some good advice!!! The only thing I don't agree with is the girls on dating sites aren't girlfriend material. My aunti met her husband on a dating site and they have beautiful kids and one of the best relationships I've ever seen. I've sexed 4 different attractive girls in a few months with, as mentioned, little to no effort. And I am offereing people who would like to do the same some advice on how to do it. I'm not saying I'm the best. I'm not telling anybody that my method of doing things is superior to any other way. I am simply offereing some perspective and advice. And you definitely ARE being a dbag. Whatever the fuck that means. You are just here to brag about getting laid, in the least original terms ever. No wonder you catch a lot of vapid, worthless, random fuck girls. They like vapid, worthless, random fuck boys. What the fuck are you talking about? God damn so cynical it's not even funny. He's giving legit advice because the vesti is infamous for being full of guys who never ever get any and you're putting literally the worst spin on it humanly possible Some good advice OP i've only been using POF nobody uses OKC here for like a few days but i'm seeing a girl I met there after work tomorrow so we'll see where that goes. Definitely be light hearted and playful girls are people too and everybody likes somebody that can make them smile. You've been exploring a dungeon for hours now and much to your chagrin you're lost. It looked as if there was no hope in sight until you find a fork in the road. One path looks clear but seems to go on forever and the other one seems to be full of twists, turns and burdocks and nobody likes those right? On the other hand you did enter a dungeon with the intent of exploring.. Which do you choose?? I am not narcissistic or arrogant. I used to be a loser who couldn't get girls, and instead of resenting people who shared their success, I learned from it. My intentions are not to brag. Honestly, I'm not even bragging. I seek to do better. My only intention in this thread is to help other guys who feel the same shitty, lonely, sexless feelings that I've felt in my life previously. If a guy goes without sex for a long period of time, he mentally starts giving up and his self esteem drops. This drop in self esteem makes it infinitely harder to get laid, which makes his self esteem drop lower. This starts a perpetual cycle that can be insanely hard to break. I was in it, and I'd like to help others who are in it break it as well. You've been exploring a dungeon for hours now and much to your chagrin you're lost. It looked as if there was no hope in sight until you find a fork in the road. One path looks clear but seems to go on forever and the other one seems to be full of twists, turns and burdocks and nobody likes those right? On the other hand you did enter a dungeon with the intent of exploring.. Which do you choose?? It looked as if there was no hope in sight until you find a fork in the road. One path looks clear but seems to go on forever and the other one seems to be full of twists, turns and burdocks and nobody likes those right? On the other hand you did enter a dungeon with the intent of exploring.. Which do you choose?? It looked as if there was no hope in sight until you find a fork in the road. One path looks clear but seems to go on forever and the other one seems to be full of twists, turns and burdocks and nobody likes those right? On the other hand you did enter a dungeon with the intent of exploring.. Which do you choose?? I am not narcissistic or arrogant. I used to be a loser who couldn't get girls, and instead of resenting people who shared their success, I learned from it. My intentions are not to brag. Honestly, I'm not even bragging. I seek to do better. My only intention in this thread is to help other guys who feel the same shitty, lonely, sexless feelings that I've felt in my life previously. If a guy goes without sex for a long period of time, he mentally starts giving up and his self esteem drops. This drop in self esteem makes it infinitely harder to get laid, which makes his self esteem drop lower. This starts a perpetual cycle that can be insanely hard to break. I was in it, and I'd like to help others who are in it break it as well. Thank god you are here to teach the Vestibule how to fuck 25% of the women you want to fuck on OKCupid. You refuted nothing, just more claims of how awesome you are, and how youve got all the answers. Refute my claim that I could get a different 25% of the women on OKC by using different tactics. Tell me where I am in the wrong with my claim. You've been exploring a dungeon for hours now and much to your chagrin you're lost. It looked as if there was no hope in sight until you find a fork in the road. One path looks clear but seems to go on forever and the other one seems to be full of twists, turns and burdocks and nobody likes those right? On the other hand you did enter a dungeon with the intent of exploring.. Which do you choose?? I am not narcissistic or arrogant. I used to be a loser who couldn't get girls, and instead of resenting people who shared their success, I learned from it. My intentions are not to brag. Honestly, I'm not even bragging. I seek to do better. My only intention in this thread is to help other guys who feel the same shitty, lonely, sexless feelings that I've felt in my life previously. If a guy goes without sex for a long period of time, he mentally starts giving up and his self esteem drops. This drop in self esteem makes it infinitely harder to get laid, which makes his self esteem drop lower. This starts a perpetual cycle that can be insanely hard to break. I was in it, and I'd like to help others who are in it break it as well. Thank god you are here to teach the Vestibule how to fuck 25% of the women you want to fuck on OKCupid. You refuted nothing, just more claims of how awesome you are, and how youve got all the answers. Refute my claim that I could get a different 25% of the women on OKC by using different tactics. Tell me where I am in the wrong with my claim. I used to be into that stuff my freshman year of college. First off, I don't have time to go meet girls in real life anymore, but I can say that it works to an extent. This thread is not pua bullshit.

You sound like an angry moron repeating right-wing talking points. I rarely waited longer than 3-5 messages, depending on the vibe, to send this as a number close. Alex: This message sounds like you want to teabag her. I am pan towards probably not on that. No, it refers to idiots who make scientists cry on TV because they wear tear shirts with naked ladies on them and other fucktards who like to police how men spread their legs on the New York subway. If you looked at someone's prime, and they looked at your back, there's a chance they might be interested. I'm keeping the house, the care, and the TV. So, again, what do you know about her intelligence, her hobbies, her accomplishments, her career, and so on. A picture is worth a un words. We want all OkCupid members to feel comfortable and safe in okcupid tips messaging dating life--and that includes their sex life, too.